“If You Feel ‘Wired But Tired’ After 40… This Could Be Why (And How to Heal)

A scary diagnosis can freeze you in place, especially in midlife when hormones, sleep, energy, and identity already feel like they’re shifting. We sit down with Dana Wilder, an energy healing practitioner and author, to talk about what happens when you refuse the story that aging means decline and chronic illness means inevitability.
Dayna shares how her multiple sclerosis diagnosis pushed her to look beyond symptom management and into root causes like trauma, chronic stress, and nervous system dysregulation. We walk through the five koshas from yoga philosophy as a practical, holistic healing framework: physical body, energy body, mental body, wisdom, and a steadier kind of “bliss” that feels like living in the eye of the storm. Along the way we unpack why mindset and beliefs matter, how emotions become chemistry, and why healing often starts with restoring safety in the body.
If you feel wired but tired and meditation sounds impossible, we give you real on-ramps: tiny daily gratitude, diaphragmatic breathing, gentle yoga, and sound-based tools like sound baths, humming, chanting, and vocal toning to support the vagus nerve. We also talk about redefining fitness for women over 40, choosing movement that restores energy, and building boundaries that protect your health without guilt.
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Dayna Wylder is an author, educator, and energy healer, and the founder of Energy Over Matter, where she offers integrative healing services including yoga, sound healing, bioresonance, PEMF, NLP, hypnosis, and frequency-based therapies. She is the author of Unlearn Dis-Ease, Relearn Well-Being, a guide exploring holistic and multi-layered approaches to healing.
After receiving a multiple sclerosis diagnosis, Dayna began a personal journey of self-experimentation driven by curiosity about true root-cause healing. Blending modern bioenergetic tools with mind-body practices and consciousness-based healing, she now helps others explore the connection between physical health, energy, thought patterns, and emotional well-being.
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